If this is what women are being taught about modesty, I find it as no surprise that we see so many women dressed inappropriately. But then, as Christians, how do we explain why women are supposed to be modest in attire?
It is as simple as this; women are supposed to dress modestly because it is Right to do so.
Know ye not, that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost, which is in you, whom ye have of God? Ye are not your own. For ye are bought for a price: therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, for they are God's. ~1 Corinthians 6:17
We don't belong to ourselves anymore, we are servants of the ever-holy God. Everything about God, is holy. Everything having to do with God, is holy. We, as his servants, are supposed to be holy. Why are we to be holy? because he is Holy, Holy, Holy. God cannot tolerate the slightest impurity in his presence, and what are we as humans? Fallen. Unholy and unclean. Evil the abomination dwells within every heart here below.
That is why God sent his son, Christ, to die for us. To purify us, sanctified by the washing of his blood. That was the price God paid out of his love for us. That's the price that the scripture above refers to...God as man, dying to cleanse us from all unrighteousness and purify us for his enjoyment.
So on the subject of modesty, what are we supposed to walk away with? Women, be modest not only in dress but in behavior, as is pleasing to Christ.
Women are not to be flirtatious in their mannerisms or language, but to set
themselves apart as a whole, physically and spiritually, to the end of glorifying God.
Men. It is not a woman's job to make sure you don't get all hot and bothered around her. That's your job. Jesus said,
But I say unto you, that whosoever lookest on a woman to lust after her, hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. Matthew 5:28
HE hath committed adultery with her in HIS heart. Jesus doesn't blame the woman in this passage here, he blames the man.
Flee fornication: every sin that a man doeth is without the body: but he that committeth fornication, sinneth against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18
So if we are to then flee fornication, and looking on a woman thinking a lustful thought is the same thing as if we were to actually have intimacy with her, tell me how having that thought it her fault instead of yours.
She was asking for it.
If she didn't want to draw eyes she shouldn't have worn that dress.
I just meant to compliment her.
If she dresses like that, she must WANT the attention.
Men. This is unacceptable. What are you trying to do here? Blame the woman for your immorality when you are to be responsible for it? The scriptures don't just say, women, be holy, modest in attire, so men don't sin by looking at you. They call all Christians to be purified in the presence of their God. YOU have to step up and take responsibility. Remember what happened the first time man blamed woman for his sin?
Than the man said, the woman which thou gavest to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did eat...also to Adam He (God,) said Because thou hast obeyed the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, (whereof I commanded thee, saying, thou shalt not eat of it,) cursed is the earth for thy sake. In sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life. Thorns also and thistles shall it bring forth, for thee, and thou shalt eat of the herb of the field. In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread till thou return to the earth, for out of it wast thou taken, because thou art dust, and to dust shalt thou return. ~Genesis 3: 12, 17-19
The first time a man blamed a woman for his own sin, and didn't stand up and take the blame that he deserved, the entire earth was cursed.
Do not play the 'Adam' card. Do not blame the woman for what is clearly your own fault. Stand up and be responsible for your own holiness, be modest in your thoughts as women are to be modest in their dress.
We ALL are to be holy for Christ. Men and women alike. When it comes down to the issue of modesty, behave in such a manner as is fitting to Christ.






